“Adults get to behave however they want.” Brooke Castillo
My client, Maggie, has begged her husband, Joe, for years to spend more time with her. The kids are grown and off on their own now and Maggie is ready to travel more, go to concerts, art exhibits, and new restaurants. She would like to feel more connected to Joe, but keeps hitting what feels like a brick wall.
She asks him if he wants to plan a trip to the Caribbean and he says, “No, I can’t be away from work for that long.”
She buys tickets to ...continue reading...
“What changes your world is not wishing for change; what changes your world is changing.” Jim Rohn
I used to be that person that would see people in the potential of who they could be, rather than who they really were. That caused me some unnecessary heartache by hanging onto relationships long past their expiration date.
I speak to women all day long that are struggling in their marriages and praying for change, expressing, I wish he would just…Be happier, Be more loving, or Communicate with me.
But wishing for him is pointless if he doesn’t want ...continue reading...
“Have patience. All things are difficult before they become easy.” Saadi
If you’ve been struggling for a long time in your marriage, there’s likely a part of you that wants to make this marriage work and a part of you that’s ready to throw in the towel.
I know it would be so much easier if you could just find a way to re-connect with your husband.
It would be so much easier if he would just be the man you need him to be.
It would be so much easier if you could just stop thinking that ...continue reading...