“If you withhold love as a form of punishment, who is being punished?” Donald L. Hicks
Here’s how most relationships work:When my spouse is doing the things that I want them to do, I show them love. When they’re not doing those things or doing things that I would prefer they NOT do, I withhold love.
My spouse will clearly feel the difference and will adjust their actions and behaviors accordingly so that the love spicket will once again rain upon them.
That’s not love, that’s attachment and manipulation.
We are taught this from a very ...continue reading...