Why Can’t He Stop Cheating? And Why Can’t I Walk Away? Here are the Options.

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Why Can’t He Stop Cheating? And Why Can’t I Walk Away? Here are the Options.

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Why Can’t He Stop Cheating? And Why Can’t I Walk Away? Here are the Options.

“When people show you who they are, believe them…” Maya Angelou

 

My client, Caren, and I were talking last night about her relationship that’s falling apart right now. There have been lies, infidelity and more hurt than any heart should ever bear.

But even as the relationship is unravelling around her, she’s struggling to let it go, wondering, Why can’t I walk away?

She can’t help herself from wishing things could be different…

…that things could magically go back to how they used to be before all the hurt…

…that he could be the loving, committed, and ...continue reading...

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Will He Ever Change?

“The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.”  Thomas Merton

 

The short answer is, “Yes, people can change.” Change is absolutely possible (…I’m living proof), but it usually takes us hitting our version of rock-bottom in order to become uncomfortable enough to seek change and be open to a new way.

The long answer is, “We resist change.” Change causes discomfort, and we certainly aren’t comfortable with discomfort. So the discomfort ...continue reading...

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