Someone Has to Take the Lead

If You Keep Doing the Same Thing, You Should Expect the Same Result.

Someone Has to Take the Lead

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Someone Has to Take the Lead

“Peace doesn’t require two people; it only requires one. It has to be you. The problem begins and ends there.” Byron Katie

When a relationship is struggling, it’s easy to sit back and wait for the other person to make the necessary changes to make it better. But it’s not an effective strategy because it very rarely happens that one partner takes the lead, so the problems continue to worsen, the resentments mount and the disconnection between the two people widens.

It takes only one person to make a difference. I know we’ve been told that we both have ...continue reading...

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Who Will Fix the Relationship?

“Peace doesn’t require two people; it only requires one. It has to be you. The problem begins and ends there.” Byron Katie

 

When there’s an ongoing struggle in our relationship, here’s what most of us do:

We complain to our partner about all the things we want them to change so that we can feel happy again in the relationship. And then we wait for that change to come.

As they say….don’t hold your breath.

No one changes just because you want them to.

The only time we begin to embrace change is when we’re in crisis-mode. That’s ...continue reading...

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