Does It Take Two People to Fix a Marriage?

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Does It Take Two People to Fix a Marriage?

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Does It Take Two People to Fix a Marriage?

“We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used to create them.” Albert Einstein

 

I received a client application recently that shared with me, “We have so many problems and we’ve been disconnected for so long that I don’t know if it will do any good for me to work on the marriage if he’s not also working on fixing the problems in our marriage. Is it possible for me to fix a marriage by myself?”

Many of us believe that in order to fix a relationship, both parties need to be present and actively working on ...continue reading...

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The Opposite of Love Isn’t Hate. It’s Indifference.

“The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it’s indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it’s indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it’s indifference.”  Elie Wiesel

 

Yes, if you’re arguing constantly with your spouse, clearly the marriage is breaking down and becoming increasingly uncomfortable. But at least when you’re arguing with one another, you’re still trying….you’re still in the ring.

…You’re mostly caught in the chain of pain trying to get the other person to change…but you’re still trying to make it work, maybe in ...continue reading...

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  1. My husband has become indifferent. I am trying to figure out what I can or can not do while he is like this.

    by Martha on January 6th, 2017 at 7:27 am
  2. Martha – What I can tell you FOR SURE is that if you do nothing different, nothing will change…and it will likely only get worse. Keep doiing same things…keep getting same results…what are you willing to try? to do differently in an effort to bridge the distance between you?

    by Sharon Pope on July 3rd, 2017 at 4:32 pm
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