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my marriage is over
How Do I Know Whether to Stay or Go?
What Are We Arguing About?
My Marriage is Over
My Affair Made Me Feel Alive…or Maybe It was Something Else
Why Can’t I Love My Husband Again?
Not All Men Are “Good Men”
Why Divorce Should ALWAYS Be an Option
Why We Don’t Do What We Should Be Doing
Waiting for Change
Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part Three
Why Is Marriage So Hard? – Part Two
Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part One
When a Marriage is Tested
When We’re Not Threatened, We’re Not Defensive
I’m Stuck. Is That True?
It’s Going to Get Rough 🌩️
Three Steps to Getting Your Needs Met in Your Marriage
One Reason for Some Affairs: Disconnection from Self
Surviving Valentine’s Day when Your Marriage is Struggling
Do We Need a Clean Slate to Move Forward?
I Have to Share This Lesson in Perspective with You
Say “Thank You”
Obligation and Marriage
Sounding the Alarm Bells on Gaslighting
Unconditional Love is Not Unconditional Consequences
My Marriage is a Mess. Why Look for Gratitude?
Alpha Men and Beta Men. Alpha Women and Beta Women.
Why Most Affairs Don’t Live Happily Ever After
Give Up the Need to Know…For Now.
When Loving You is Betraying Myself
But Aren’t We Supposed to Make Each Other Happy?
The Most Damaging Lie We Tell in our Marriages
Choosing Between Two Men
I Hope I’m Never Someone’s Contingency Plan
Women Leave Mentally Before They Leave Physically
The Intensity of Pain
We Have High Expectations for Our Marriages
His Wife Is Changing…and He Doesn’t Like It
A Marriage Tool for Having Difficult Conversations
Children and Divorce: What if Your Kids Could Thrive?
Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 3
Is it Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 2
Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 1.
Is Your Marriage Surviving on Leftovers?
But My Situation Is Different…
Ten Tips to Divorce Differently
Difficult Conversations Will Be Uncomfortable
Can One Person Make a Difference?
Can I Trust Him?
Will My Husband Ever Change?
Understanding Emotional Infidelity
How Do You Know When Your Marriage is Over?
Our Arguments Never Get Resolved
She was Putting Her Kids in the Middle
My Musings on Marriage
All Love Matters…Even When It Ends
The Shame of Staying
Was Your Marriage Put on a Shelf?
Are You Growing Closer Together or Drifting Further Apart?
Resentments of an Alpha Female
If Your Husband is Controlling, Here’s Why.
Loving Unconditionally is the Hardest Work We’ll Ever Do
Why We Avoid Setting Boundaries
Why People in Healthcare Struggle in Their Marriages
1825 Days Without Affection
Some of the Most Successful People You Know Have Relationship Struggles
Why Bother Trying?
Your Relationship Prep for the New Year
Sharing Some Gifts with You
Someone Has to Take the Lead
The Difference between Loving Someone & Using Them…
What Will Happen If I Let It Go?
The Danger of Our Expectations. A Very Personal Story.
The Mature Marriage: Five Signs Your Marriage is in Trouble
What if No One has to be Wrong?
Judgement Doesn’t Help
Challenging the Inevitable Truth
Begging for Affection
The Tornado of the Type A Woman
The Guardian of His Solitude
I Don’t Miss Him Because…
Protecting Your Heart
How Did We Go from Hope to Hate?
I Didn’t Go Looking for an Affair
When We Betray Ourselves
The Power in Making a Decision
When You Take Responsibility, You Have the Ability to Respond
The Four Stages of Marriage
Some Practical Relationship Advice
Two Years in Therapy and $6500 Later…
Divorce and Our Emotions
How are You Showing Up as a Woman?
Given What’s Happening, Should Marriage Still Legally be Allowed?
It’s Not Magic …But It Is Magical
A Confused Mind Does Nothing
If I Lean Back, Will He Lean In?
What if I Don’t Want to Save My Marriage?
How Important is the Health of Your Marriage?
Would You Stay if Your Husband Cheated? Three Questions to Help You Decide if You Should Stay or Go.
Will My Marriage Last?
I’m Not the Problem
This is What to Do with Drama and Struggle
There is No Such Thing as Destiny
When We Withhold Love
The Mature Marriage: Five Signs of a Marriage in Trouble
Why We Choose to Cheat Instead of Leave a Bad Marriage
Why I Love It When My Coaching Clients Stop Working with Me
Anything We Are Experiencing, We Are Choosing.
He Doesn’t Get It
The One Who Broke My Heart
Having It All Together is Highly Overrated
50 Ways We Leave Our Lovers
What has been Your Biggest Mistake?
I’ve Read Everything & Nothing’s Changed
Neither Wanted to Give In… So They Both Gave Up
Can I Afford to Leave My Husband?
What’s Important to You?
Connection and Intimacy: Can It be Created?
How We Communicate is a Result of How We Feel
Communication and Relationships: This Blew My Mind
What’s Creating the Arguing or the Distance in Relationships?
Five Reasons Why So Many People File for Divorce in January and When is the Best Time to Divorce?
You’re on the Same Team
Want More Intimacy? Create Some Separation.
To Love takes Courage
There are Two Sides to Every Story…and they’re both right.
What It’s Like When We Love Someone but are No Longer in Love.
How to Make a Marriage Thrive
The Marriage We Have is a Result of Our Thoughts
The Danger of a Marriage on Auto-Pilot
A Marriage Counseling Drawback
We Do What We Want to Do. Period.
My First 100 Clients…and the Ripple Effect.
The Missing Piece in Your Decision to Leave Your Marriage
If I Stay Right Here, Nothing Bad Will Happen
Seeking Answers for My Marriage…
Are the Empty Nest Blues Placing Your Marriage at Risk?
Conventional Wisdom Doesn’t Work in Our Relationships
The 10 Minute Marriage Fix
Your Relationship Scorecard
Are You the Weakest Link in Your Relationship?
What a Shame.
Other People Don’t Belong in Your Marriage
I Wish He Would
Marriage Vows and Divorce: Is Till Death Do Us Part Still Relevant?
Your Hurt. Your Pain. Your Anger.
Enough Distracting from Your Disconnected Marriage. Plus an Invitation for You.
Thirty Phrases that can Save a Troubled Marriage
How Did My Marriage Get So Bad?
Owning My Part: How I Found Success in the Failure of My Marriage
The Hidden Toll of an Unhealthy Marriage
How to Admit Your Role in a Failed Relationship (without Blaming Yourself)
What to Do when Your Relationship with a Narcissist (Inevitably) Falls Apart
When Temporary Separation from Your Partner is a Good Thing
I Stayed in the Wrong Marriage for 11 Years
What I Know about Love from Being in the Wrong Marriage
Four Reasons Why I Make No Apologies for My Price
Stop Engaging in “The Crazy.”
How Is This Possible In Coaching?
Too Little. Too Late.
90% of You Will Not Attempt to Solve the Problem and More than 50% of You will Divorce.
What if Your Relationship is Complete?
How Do I Tell My Husband I’m Unhappy?
Is This the Kind of Marriage You Hope Your Daughter has One Day?
10 Quotes for Understanding Why Some Marriages Struggle
It’s Not (Only) About the Affair
The Disconnected Marriage
Love Him, but Not in Love with Him
Just Because He Lied or Cheated Doesn’t Make Him a Narcissist
An Abandoned Home. A Disconnected Marriage.
Your Husband Left. It Didn’t Happen Overnight.
Why is Connecting with My Husband so Difficult?
My Life Needed to be Blown-Up
How Life Coaches are Like Personal Trainers.
What are You Allowing in Your Relationship?
The Most Important Thing a Man Wants
What I Learned from Jim Masters & How It Relates to Our Relationships
The Single Biggest Relationship Mistake that We ALL Make
Keeping the Boardroom Out of the Bedroom: Keeping the Intimacy of Marriage
We’re Missing an Intimate Connection. Here’s Why…
There are No Guarantees in Love
Your Lawyer Isn’t Your Relationship Coach
The Loveless Marriage
How to Heal After an Affair
I Have No Reason to Leave
When Good Women Cheat
The Facebook Affair
Is My Marriage in Trouble?
A Cry for Help: When Your Marriage is in Trouble, the Distance Grows Wider and You get Rebellious
The REAL Story about My First Marriage and Why It Ended
Hitting Rock Bottom in Your Relationship.
Why Isn’t This Enough?
I Love Him, but I’m Not in Love with Him
If I’m so Smart, Why Can’t I Fix My Marriage?
When the Arguing Ends and You’re Left with a Grudging Tolerance
Relationships Drift. Marriages End. Hearts Break Open.
It’s Easier to Walk Away from Marriage in Anger and Hurt
Most Recent For Women
I Can’t Do That to Him
Why We Control
What Would Happen If…
Is Your Independence Helping or Hurting Your Marriage?
You Marry the Family, But You Also Marry This…
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When You Have Tried Everything
How Do I Have The Conversation?
Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater?
What’s Not Working In Your Marriage?
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