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my marriage is over

• How Do I Know Whether to Stay or Go?
• What Are We Arguing About?
• My Marriage is Over
• My Affair Made Me Feel Alive…or Maybe It was Something Else
• Why Can’t I Love My Husband Again?
• Not All Men Are “Good Men”
• Why Divorce Should ALWAYS Be an Option
• Why We Don’t Do What We Should Be Doing
• Waiting for Change
• Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part Three
• Why Is Marriage So Hard? – Part Two
• Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part One
• When a Marriage is Tested
• When We’re Not Threatened, We’re Not Defensive
• I’m Stuck. Is That True?
• It’s Going to Get Rough 🌩️
• Three Steps to Getting Your Needs Met in Your Marriage
• One Reason for Some Affairs: Disconnection from Self
• Surviving Valentine’s Day when Your Marriage is Struggling
• Do We Need a Clean Slate to Move Forward?
• I Have to Share This Lesson in Perspective with You
• Say “Thank You”
• Obligation and Marriage
• Sounding the Alarm Bells on Gaslighting
• Unconditional Love is Not Unconditional Consequences
• Begin Again
• My Marriage is a Mess. Why Look for Gratitude?
• Alpha Men and Beta Men. Alpha Women and Beta Women.
• Why Most Affairs Don’t Live Happily Ever After
• Give Up the Need to Know…For Now.
• When Loving You is Betraying Myself
• But Aren’t We Supposed to Make Each Other Happy?
• The Most Damaging Lie We Tell in our Marriages
• Choosing Between Two Men
• I Hope I’m Never Someone’s Contingency Plan
• Women Leave Mentally Before They Leave Physically
• The Intensity of Pain
• We Have High Expectations for Our Marriages
• His Wife Is Changing…and He Doesn’t Like It
• A Marriage Tool for Having Difficult Conversations
• Children and Divorce: What if Your Kids Could Thrive?
• Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 3
• Is it Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 2
• Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 1.
• Is Your Marriage Surviving on Leftovers?
• But My Situation Is Different…
• Ten Tips to Divorce Differently
• Difficult Conversations Will Be Uncomfortable
• Can One Person Make a Difference?
• Surviving Infidelity
• Can I Trust Him?
• Will My Husband Ever Change?
• Understanding Emotional Infidelity
• How Do You Know When Your Marriage is Over?
• Our Arguments Never Get Resolved
• She was Putting Her Kids in the Middle
• My Musings on Marriage
• All Love Matters…Even When It Ends
• The Shame of Staying
• Was Your Marriage Put on a Shelf?
• Are You Growing Closer Together or Drifting Further Apart?
• Resentments of an Alpha Female
• If Your Husband is Controlling, Here’s Why.
• Loving Unconditionally is the Hardest Work We’ll Ever Do
• Why We Avoid Setting Boundaries
• Why People in Healthcare Struggle in Their Marriages
• 1825 Days Without Affection
• Some of the Most Successful People You Know Have Relationship Struggles
• Why Bother Trying?
• Your Relationship Prep for the New Year
• Sharing Some Gifts with You
• Someone Has to Take the Lead
• The Difference between Loving Someone & Using Them…
• What Will Happen If I Let It Go?
• The Danger of Our Expectations. A Very Personal Story.
• The Mature Marriage: Five Signs Your Marriage is in Trouble
• What if No One has to be Wrong?
• Judgement Doesn’t Help
• Challenging the Inevitable Truth
• Begging for Affection
• The Tornado of the Type A Woman
• The Guardian of His Solitude
• I Don’t Miss Him Because…
• Protecting Your Heart
• How Did We Go from Hope to Hate?
• I Didn’t Go Looking for an Affair
• When We Betray Ourselves
• The Power in Making a Decision
• When You Take Responsibility, You Have the Ability to Respond
• The Four Stages of Marriage
• Some Practical Relationship Advice
• Two Years in Therapy and $6500 Later…
• Divorce and Our Emotions
• Comfortably Unhappy
• How are You Showing Up as a Woman?
• Given What’s Happening, Should Marriage Still Legally be Allowed?
• It’s Not Magic …But It Is Magical
• A Confused Mind Does Nothing
• If I Lean Back, Will He Lean In?
• What if I Don’t Want to Save My Marriage?
• How Important is the Health of Your Marriage?
• Would You Stay if Your Husband Cheated? Three Questions to Help You Decide if You Should Stay or Go.
• Will My Marriage Last?
• I’m Not the Problem
• This is What to Do with Drama and Struggle
• There is No Such Thing as Destiny
• When We Withhold Love
• The Mature Marriage: Five Signs of a Marriage in Trouble
• Why We Choose to Cheat Instead of Leave a Bad Marriage
• Indecision Sucks
• Why I Love It When My Coaching Clients Stop Working with Me
• Anything We Are Experiencing, We Are Choosing.
• He Doesn’t Get It
• The One Who Broke My Heart
• Having It All Together is Highly Overrated
• 50 Ways We Leave Our Lovers
• What has been Your Biggest Mistake?
• I’ve Read Everything & Nothing’s Changed
• Neither Wanted to Give In… So They Both Gave Up
• Can I Afford to Leave My Husband?
• What’s Important to You?
• Connection and Intimacy: Can It be Created?
• How We Communicate is a Result of How We Feel
• Communication and Relationships: This Blew My Mind
• What’s Creating the Arguing or the Distance in Relationships?
• Five Reasons Why So Many People File for Divorce in January and When is the Best Time to Divorce?
• You’re on the Same Team
• Want More Intimacy? Create Some Separation.
• To Love takes Courage
• There are Two Sides to Every Story…and they’re both right.
• What It’s Like When We Love Someone but are No Longer in Love.
• How to Make a Marriage Thrive
• The Marriage We Have is a Result of Our Thoughts
• The Danger of a Marriage on Auto-Pilot
• A Marriage Counseling Drawback
• We Do What We Want to Do. Period.
• My First 100 Clients…and the Ripple Effect.
• The Missing Piece in Your Decision to Leave Your Marriage
• If I Stay Right Here, Nothing Bad Will Happen
• Seeking Answers for My Marriage…
• Are the Empty Nest Blues Placing Your Marriage at Risk?
• Conventional Wisdom Doesn’t Work in Our Relationships
• The 10 Minute Marriage Fix
• Your Relationship Scorecard
• Are You the Weakest Link in Your Relationship?
• What a Shame.
• Other People Don’t Belong in Your Marriage
• I Wish He Would
• Marriage Vows and Divorce: Is Till Death Do Us Part Still Relevant?
• Your Hurt. Your Pain. Your Anger.
• Enough Distracting from Your Disconnected Marriage. Plus an Invitation for You.
• Thirty Phrases that can Save a Troubled Marriage
• How Did My Marriage Get So Bad?
• Owning My Part: How I Found Success in the Failure of My Marriage
• The Hidden Toll of an Unhealthy Marriage
• How to Admit Your Role in a Failed Relationship (without Blaming Yourself)
• What to Do when Your Relationship with a Narcissist (Inevitably) Falls Apart
• When Temporary Separation from Your Partner is a Good Thing
• I Stayed in the Wrong Marriage for 11 Years
• What I Know about Love from Being in the Wrong Marriage
• Four Reasons Why I Make No Apologies for My Price
• Stop Engaging in “The Crazy.”
• How Is This Possible In Coaching?
• Too Little. Too Late.
• 90% of You Will Not Attempt to Solve the Problem and More than 50% of You will Divorce.
• What if Your Relationship is Complete?
• How Do I Tell My Husband I’m Unhappy?
• You’ve Changed…
• Is This the Kind of Marriage You Hope Your Daughter has One Day?
• 10 Quotes for Understanding Why Some Marriages Struggle
• It’s Not (Only) About the Affair
• The Disconnected Marriage
• Love Him, but Not in Love with Him
• Just Because He Lied or Cheated Doesn’t Make Him a Narcissist
• An Abandoned Home. A Disconnected Marriage.
• Your Husband Left. It Didn’t Happen Overnight.
• Why is Connecting with My Husband so Difficult?
• My Life Needed to be Blown-Up
• How Life Coaches are Like Personal Trainers.
• What are You Allowing in Your Relationship?
• The Most Important Thing a Man Wants
• What I Learned from Jim Masters & How It Relates to Our Relationships
• The Single Biggest Relationship Mistake that We ALL Make
• Keeping the Boardroom Out of the Bedroom: Keeping the Intimacy of Marriage
• We’re Missing an Intimate Connection. Here’s Why…
• There are No Guarantees in Love
• Your Lawyer Isn’t Your Relationship Coach
• The Loveless Marriage
• How to Heal After an Affair
• I Have No Reason to Leave
• When Good Women Cheat
• The Facebook Affair
• Is My Marriage in Trouble?
• A Cry for Help: When Your Marriage is in Trouble, the Distance Grows Wider and You get Rebellious
• The REAL Story about My First Marriage and Why It Ended
• Hitting Rock Bottom in Your Relationship.
• Why Isn’t This Enough?
• I Love Him, but I’m Not in Love with Him
• If I’m so Smart, Why Can’t I Fix My Marriage?
• When the Arguing Ends and You’re Left with a Grudging Tolerance
• Relationships Drift. Marriages End. Hearts Break Open.
• It’s Easier to Walk Away from Marriage in Anger and Hurt