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How My Marriage Kept Me Stuck in My Wounds
Is Affection Built on Nature or Nurture?
The Most Beautiful Thing I’ve Ever Heard a Client Say
Do I Have to Forget the Past to Move Forward?
Is Your Relationship Codependent?
I Can’t Do That to Him
What Would Happen If…
The Best Relationships Are Not Without Conflict
What Happens When We Suppress Our Emotions
What Does the Super Bowl Have to Do With Your Marriage?
I Just Want Him Back
Are you overtaking responsibility for someone else’s feelings?
The Silent Contract Between You Two
When do you know the marriage is over?
One Conversation Created A Miracle For One Couple
Some Of Your Husbands Will Love Me. Some Won’t.
Looking For Peace When a Marriage is Crumbling
My Affair Made Me Feel Alive…or Maybe It was Something Else
Why Can’t I Love My Husband Again?
I’m Stuck. I Can’t Leave.
Why Divorce Should ALWAYS Be an Option
Why We Don’t Do What We Should Be Doing
Waiting for Change
Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part Three
Why Is Marriage So Hard? – Part Two
Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part One
When a Marriage is Tested
When We’re Not Threatened, We’re Not Defensive
I’m Stuck. Is That True?
It’s Going to Get Rough 🌩️
Three Steps to Getting Your Needs Met in Your Marriage
A Perfect Storm: Increased Stress and More Time Together
One Reason for Some Affairs: Disconnection from Self
Surviving Valentine’s Day when Your Marriage is Struggling
Do We Need a Clean Slate to Move Forward?
I Have to Share This Lesson in Perspective with You
Say “Thank You”
Obligation and Marriage
Sounding the Alarm Bells on Gaslighting
Unconditional Love is Not Unconditional Consequences
My Marriage is a Mess. Why Look for Gratitude?
Alpha Men and Beta Men. Alpha Women and Beta Women.
Why Most Affairs Don’t Live Happily Ever After
Give Up the Need to Know…For Now.
When Loving You is Betraying Myself
But Aren’t We Supposed to Make Each Other Happy?
The Most Damaging Lie We Tell in our Marriages
All Growth and Healing Happens in Community
Choosing Between Two Men
I Hope I’m Never Someone’s Contingency Plan
Women Leave Mentally Before They Leave Physically
The Intensity of Pain
We Have High Expectations for Our Marriages
His Wife Is Changing…and He Doesn’t Like It
A Marriage Tool for Having Difficult Conversations
Children and Divorce: What if Your Kids Could Thrive?
Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 3
Is it Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 2
Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 1.
Is Your Marriage Surviving on Leftovers?
But My Situation Is Different…
Ten Tips to Divorce Differently
Difficult Conversations Will Be Uncomfortable
Can One Person Make a Difference?
Can I Trust Him?
Will My Husband Ever Change?
Understanding Emotional Infidelity
How Do You Know When Your Marriage is Over?
Our Arguments Never Get Resolved
The Five Steps to Having Difficult Conversations
She was Putting Her Kids in the Middle
My Musings on Marriage
The Shame of Staying
Was Your Marriage Put on a Shelf?
Are You Growing Closer Together or Drifting Further Apart?
Resentments of an Alpha Female
If Your Husband is Controlling, Here’s Why.
Loving Unconditionally is the Hardest Work We’ll Ever Do
Why We Avoid Setting Boundaries
Why People in Healthcare Struggle in Their Marriages
1825 Days Without Affection
Some of the Most Successful People You Know Have Relationship Struggles
Why Bother Trying?
Your Relationship Prep for the New Year
Sharing Some Gifts with You
Someone Has to Take the Lead
The Difference between Loving Someone & Using Them…
What Will Happen If I Let It Go?
The Danger of Our Expectations. A Very Personal Story.
The Mature Marriage: Five Signs Your Marriage is in Trouble
Judgement Doesn’t Help
Challenging the Inevitable Truth
Support Groups Seem Like a Perfectly Logical Idea…
Begging for Affection
The Tornado of the Type A Woman
I Don’t Miss Him Because…
Protecting Your Heart
How Did We Go from Hope to Hate?
I Didn’t Go Looking for an Affair
When We Betray Ourselves
The Power in Making a Decision
When You Take Responsibility, You Have the Ability to Respond
The Four Stages of Marriage
Some Practical Relationship Advice
Let’s Talk Love & Bondage…
Two Years in Therapy and $6500 Later…
How are You Showing Up as a Woman?
Given What’s Happening, Should Marriage Still Legally be Allowed?
It’s Not Magic …But It Is Magical
A Confused Mind Does Nothing
If I Lean Back, Will He Lean In?
Maybe Communication Isn’t the Only Answer to Creating Intimacy
How Important is the Health of Your Marriage?
Would You Stay if Your Husband Cheated? Three Questions to Help You Decide if You Should Stay or Go.
Will My Marriage Last?
I’m Not the Problem
This is What to Do with Drama and Struggle
There is No Such Thing as Destiny
When We Withhold Love
The Mature Marriage: Five Signs of a Marriage in Trouble
Why We Choose to Cheat Instead of Leave a Bad Marriage
Why I Love It When My Coaching Clients Stop Working with Me
We Belong to Each Other
Anything We Are Experiencing, We Are Choosing.
He Doesn’t Get It
Having It All Together is Highly Overrated
50 Ways We Leave Our Lovers
What has been Your Biggest Mistake?
I’ve Read Everything & Nothing’s Changed
Neither Wanted to Give In… So They Both Gave Up
Why is Fifty Shades of Grey so Appealing to Mature Women?
Can I Afford to Leave My Husband?
What’s Important to You?
Connection and Intimacy: Can It be Created?
How We Communicate is a Result of How We Feel
Communication and Relationships: This Blew My Mind
What’s Creating the Arguing or the Distance in Relationships?
Five Reasons Why So Many People File for Divorce in January and When is the Best Time to Divorce?
Is There Still Hope?
You’re on the Same Team
Want More Intimacy? Create Some Separation.
There are Two Sides to Every Story…and they’re both right.
What It’s Like When We Love Someone but are No Longer in Love.
How to Make a Marriage Thrive
The Marriage We Have is a Result of Our Thoughts
The Danger of a Marriage on Auto-Pilot
Want to Heal Your Relationship? Find Forgiveness.
We Do What We Want to Do. Period.
My First 100 Clients…and the Ripple Effect.
Accepting an Apology You Never Receive
The Missing Piece in Your Decision to Leave Your Marriage
If I Stay Right Here, Nothing Bad Will Happen
Seeking Answers for My Marriage…
Seek This Before Deciding to Leave Your Marriage
Are the Empty Nest Blues Placing Your Marriage at Risk?
Conventional Wisdom Doesn’t Work in Our Relationships
The 10 Minute Marriage Fix
Your Relationship Scorecard
Are You the Weakest Link in Your Relationship?
What a Shame.
Other People Don’t Belong in Your Marriage
I Wish He Would
Marriage Vows and Divorce: Is Till Death Do Us Part Still Relevant?
Your Hurt. Your Pain. Your Anger.
Enough Distracting from Your Disconnected Marriage. Plus an Invitation for You.
Thirty Phrases that can Save a Troubled Marriage
When Temporary Separation from Your Partner is a Good Thing
I Stayed in the Wrong Marriage for 11 Years
What I Know about Love from Being in the Wrong Marriage
Four Reasons Why I Make No Apologies for My Price
Stop Engaging in “The Crazy.”
Too Little. Too Late.
Just Because He Lied or Cheated Doesn’t Make Him a Narcissist
An Abandoned Home. A Disconnected Marriage.
The Single Biggest Relationship Mistake that We ALL Make
My Affair is Over. Now What?
Keeping the Boardroom Out of the Bedroom: Keeping the Intimacy of Marriage
Three Reasons Why Asking Your Spouse to Go to Marriage Counseling with You Rarely Works
Does It Take Two People to Fix a Marriage?
The Loveless Marriage
I Have No Reason to Leave
I Can’t Leave My Marriage and I Can’t Stop My Affair
When Good Women Cheat
There is No Relationships Class. No One Teaches Us How to Do This
The Facebook Affair
Is My Marriage in Trouble?
A Cry for Help: When Your Marriage is in Trouble, the Distance Grows Wider and You get Rebellious
The Magic Pill for My Marriage
If I’m so Smart, Why Can’t I Fix My Marriage?
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