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my marriage is a mess

• I’m monitoring everything he does…
• COVID Has Been Hard on Marriages
• A Crowded Marriage
• Is Affection Built on Nature or Nurture?
• Do I Have to Forget the Past to Move Forward?
• 2021: Will This Be the Year You Finally Decide?
• I Just Want Him Back
• The Silent Contract Between You Two
• Why We Don’t Do What We Should Be Doing
• Waiting for Change
• Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part Three
• Why Is Marriage So Hard? – Part Two
• Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part One
• When a Marriage is Tested
• When We’re Not Threatened, We’re Not Defensive
• I’m Stuck. Is That True?
• Three Steps to Getting Your Needs Met in Your Marriage
• A Perfect Storm: Increased Stress and More Time Together
• Surviving Valentine’s Day when Your Marriage is Struggling
• Do We Need a Clean Slate to Move Forward?
• Obligation and Marriage
• Sounding the Alarm Bells on Gaslighting
• Unconditional Love is Not Unconditional Consequences
• Begin Again
• My Marriage is a Mess. Why Look for Gratitude?
• Why Most Affairs Don’t Live Happily Ever After
• Give Up the Need to Know…For Now.
• When Loving You is Betraying Myself
• But Aren’t We Supposed to Make Each Other Happy?
• The Most Damaging Lie We Tell in our Marriages
• All Growth and Healing Happens in Community
• Choosing Between Two Men
• I Hope I’m Never Someone’s Contingency Plan
• Women Leave Mentally Before They Leave Physically
• The Intensity of Pain
• We Have High Expectations for Our Marriages
• His Wife Is Changing…and He Doesn’t Like It
• A Marriage Tool for Having Difficult Conversations
• Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 3
• Is it Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 2
• Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 1.
• Is Your Marriage Surviving on Leftovers?
• But My Situation Is Different…
• Ten Tips to Divorce Differently
• Difficult Conversations Will Be Uncomfortable
• Can One Person Make a Difference?
• Surviving Infidelity
• Can I Trust Him?
• Will My Husband Ever Change?
• Understanding Emotional Infidelity
• Verbally Abusive Relationship
• How Do You Know When Your Marriage is Over?
• Our Arguments Never Get Resolved
• She was Putting Her Kids in the Middle
• My Musings on Marriage
• The Shame of Staying
• Was Your Marriage Put on a Shelf?
• Are You Growing Closer Together or Drifting Further Apart?
• Resentments of an Alpha Female
• If Your Husband is Controlling, Here’s Why.
• Loving Unconditionally is the Hardest Work We’ll Ever Do
• Why We Avoid Setting Boundaries
• 1825 Days Without Affection
• Some of the Most Successful People You Know Have Relationship Struggles
• Why Bother Trying?
• Your Relationship Prep for the New Year
• Sharing Some Gifts with You
• Someone Has to Take the Lead
• The Difference between Loving Someone & Using Them…
• What Will Happen If I Let It Go?
• The Danger of Our Expectations. A Very Personal Story.
• The Mature Marriage: Five Signs Your Marriage is in Trouble
• What if No One has to be Wrong?
• The Tornado of the Type A Woman
• The Guardian of His Solitude
• The Power in Making a Decision
• Comfortably Unhappy
• How are You Showing Up as a Woman?
• Given What’s Happening, Should Marriage Still Legally be Allowed?
• It’s Not Magic …But It Is Magical
• A Confused Mind Does Nothing
• What if I Don’t Want to Save My Marriage?
• How Important is the Health of Your Marriage?
• Would You Stay if Your Husband Cheated? Three Questions to Help You Decide if You Should Stay or Go.
• Will My Marriage Last?
• I’m Not the Problem
• This is What to Do with Drama and Struggle
• When We Withhold Love
• Having It All Together is Highly Overrated
• Connection and Intimacy: Can It be Created?
• Want More Intimacy? Create Some Separation.
• To Love takes Courage
• What It’s Like When We Love Someone but are No Longer in Love.
• How to Make a Marriage Thrive
• The Marriage We Have is a Result of Our Thoughts
• The Danger of a Marriage on Auto-Pilot
• We Do What We Want to Do. Period.
• Accepting an Apology You Never Receive
• The Missing Piece in Your Decision to Leave Your Marriage
• Seeking Answers for My Marriage…
• Seek This Before Deciding to Leave Your Marriage
• Are the Empty Nest Blues Placing Your Marriage at Risk?
• Does He Have Something to Hide
• The 10 Minute Marriage Fix
• Your Relationship Scorecard
• Are You the Weakest Link in Your Relationship?
• Other People Don’t Belong in Your Marriage
• Marriage Vows and Divorce: Is Till Death Do Us Part Still Relevant?
• Your Hurt. Your Pain. Your Anger.
• Enough Distracting from Your Disconnected Marriage. Plus an Invitation for You.
• Thirty Phrases that can Save a Troubled Marriage
• How Did My Marriage Get So Bad?
• Owning My Part: How I Found Success in the Failure of My Marriage
• The Hidden Toll of an Unhealthy Marriage
• When Temporary Separation from Your Partner is a Good Thing
• I Stayed in the Wrong Marriage for 11 Years
• What I Know about Love from Being in the Wrong Marriage
• Four Reasons Why I Make No Apologies for My Price
• How Is This Possible In Coaching?
• Too Little. Too Late.
• 90% of You Will Not Attempt to Solve the Problem and More than 50% of You will Divorce.
• Is He on Good Behavior or Is This Lasting Change?
• What if Your Relationship is Complete?
• How Do I Tell My Husband I’m Unhappy?
• You Have 3 Options When Your Marriage is Falling Apart
• You’ve Changed…
• Is This the Kind of Marriage You Hope Your Daughter has One Day?
• 10 Quotes for Understanding Why Some Marriages Struggle
• It’s Not (Only) About the Affair
• The Disconnected Marriage
• Just Because He Lied or Cheated Doesn’t Make Him a Narcissist
• An Abandoned Home. A Disconnected Marriage.
• Why is Connecting with My Husband so Difficult?
• My Life Needed to be Blown-Up
• How Life Coaches are Like Personal Trainers.
• What are You Allowing in Your Relationship?
• The Most Important Thing a Man Wants
• What I Learned from Jim Masters & How It Relates to Our Relationships
• My Affair is Over. Now What?
• We’re Missing an Intimate Connection. Here’s Why…
• There are No Guarantees in Love
• My Biggest Beef with the Self-Help Industry
• I Can’t Leave My Marriage and I Can’t Stop My Affair
• The Opposite of Love Isn’t Hate. It’s Indifference.
• Why Isn’t This Enough?
• Valentine’s Day when Your Marriage is a Mess