An Abandoned Home. A Disconnected Marriage.

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An Abandoned Home. A Disconnected Marriage.

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An Abandoned Home. A Disconnected Marriage.

“When we are feeling disconnected from our partner, it isn’t necessarily a sign to leave, but a sign to go deeper.” Jennifer Wardowski

 

Last summer, my husband and I purchased a 60+ year old home from a darling 80+ year old woman. The home had become too much for her to take care of and she decided she would prefer to be in an assisted living community so the house sat empty for about a year. And during that time, when no one was living in the home, it deteriorated faster than when she was there doing her ...continue reading...

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Why Can’t He Stop Cheating? And Why Can’t I Walk Away? Here are the Options.

“When people show you who they are, believe them…” Maya Angelou

 

My client, Caren, and I were talking last night about her relationship that’s falling apart right now. There have been lies, infidelity and more hurt than any heart should ever bear.

But even as the relationship is unravelling around her, she’s struggling to let it go, wondering, Why can’t I walk away?

She can’t help herself from wishing things could be different…

…that things could magically go back to how they used to be before all the hurt…

…that he could be the loving, committed, and ...continue reading...

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The Paradox of Loneliness

“I used to feel that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. IT’S NOT. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone.” Robin Williams

 

We say “I do.”

We settle in as married couple.

We may even plan for children.

We carry the assumption that feeling alone is now a thing of the past. After all, we have someone by our side now “until death do us part.”

So what happens when that relationship feels empty?

What happens when you’re not technically alone, but you’ve never ...continue reading...

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