She was Putting Her Kids in the Middle

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She was Putting Her Kids in the Middle

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She was Putting Her Kids in the Middle

“People can’t change the truth, but the truth can change people.” Drake

 

My client, who I’ll refer to as Naomi shared something important with me recently: She said she realized how she was using her children as a means of avoiding closeness with her husband.

When they would all be walking together, the kids were in the middle between them.

When they would hand out together in the kitchen around the island, she noticed how she always seemed to be on the opposite side of the island closest to her children.

Even in bed, the kids often fell ...continue reading...

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Your Sexless Marriage

“In fact, touch is one of the most forgotten languages.” Osho from “Hammer on the Rock”

A woman that I’ll refer to as Marilyn reached out to me this week and shared her story with me. She was without joy or connection in her life and in her marriage. She and her husband of 12 years have no love for one another and live essentially as roommates.

They have, however, been good co-parents together. They shuffle their three children everywhere they need to be, get their homework done and manage to get dinner on the table in one form ...continue reading...

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