“They were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.” John Irving
Making the decision to leave a marriage doesn’t happen overnight and it’s never made lightly. It’s never a result of one thing, one argument or one issue. By the time someone decides to walk out the door, there have been years or even decades of slowly walking away from one another in small ways every day:Make excuses to see friends, rather than spend time with your spouse Intentionally drinking alcohol in order to make love Stop dressing up for your partner or trying ...continue reading...
“Passion is the oxygen of the soul.” Bill Butler
Fire is life; but my fire was almost completely extinguished; only a few embers remained.
I had been married for 11 years to a perfectly good man. He had a good job, worked out, watched football and had good relationships with his family. He packed his lunch every day, ironed his clothes on Sunday for the week ahead, said, “please” and “thank you.”
I distracted myself with my career and put my marriage on auto pilot.
I did all the things I was supposed to do and had all the ...continue reading...