“You’ve been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.” Louise L. Hay
My client Jennifer seems to be getting judgements and criticisms from all angles right now. And it’s hurtful to her. It makes her doubt herself. It chips away at her self-esteem. It brings on endless tears.
Her soon-to-be-ex-husband thinks she is immature and indulgent.
Her daughter thinks she’s selfish for leaving the marriage in the first place.
Even one of her good friends gave her a back-hand comment implying that, to some degree, she deserves the pain ...continue reading...
“The life you live is a reflection of what’s going on inside of you.” Oprah
There was a time – shortly after the divorce from my first husband but before I met my current husband, Derrick, that my man-picker was broken. I mean BROKEN.
At least that was my story for why I attracted and dated men that would lie or cheat or treat me as though I was not terribly important.
The real truth was that I was attracting exactly what I was at that time. Now I don’t like to think of myself as a liar ...continue reading...