“Love enjoys knowing everything about you; desire needs mystery. Love likes to shrink the distance that exists between me and you, while desire is energized by it. Love is about having; desire is about wanting. An expression of longing, desire requires ongoing elusiveness.” Esther Perel, Mating in Captivity
It started out innocent enough.
James sent a Facebook friend request to Maggie. She accepted. He had once been the love of her life and the man she thought she would spend eternity with, but life got in the way, they both made some missteps and they chalked it up to ...continue reading...
“The longest journey you will make in your life is from your head to your heart.” Sioux legend
Tammy was a woman that found me through Facebook. She had read the blog post I wrote on narcissism and knew she needed help getting out of her toxic, abusive and emotionally destructive relationship. She’s given up everything to be with a man that makes her feel isolated, weak and lost.
A woman who was once happy, positive and confident is now – 4 years later after falling in love with a ...continue reading...
“Sometimes it’s the pain of love that transforms you into someone who has the courage to take it on.” Marianne Williamson, The Age of Miracles
Do you want love, or do you just want to want it? There’s a difference.
Do you want to heal from your breakup or do you just want to want to heal from your breakup because the sadness is too painful to sit in? There’s a difference.
Do you want make your future different than your past or do you just want to want it to be that way? Different, without really knowing ...continue reading...