“Nothing happens until you decide.” Oprah Winfrey
A confused mind does nothing.
Someone said this to me in passing recently.
They said it as if it had been said a million times before.
And it was being used in a different context than in the area of disconnected marriages and struggling relationships.
But it completely resonated with me as it relates to the decision to stay in your marriage or to lovingly release it.
When we’re confused, we do nothing.
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“Waiting hurts. Forgetting hurts. But not knowing which decision to take can sometimes be the most painful.” Paulo Coelho
The thought of staying feels hopeless, but the thought of leaving and breaking up my family is terrifying.
I’ve heard this in various ways probably hundreds of times over the years of doing this relationship work. And every time I hear a woman speak those words to me, I can feel the amount of pain she’s enduring. It’s a place of genuine confusion. It’s the place of feeling stuck and lost. Confusion and indecision feel horrible.
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