Stay or Go – Cont…
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But before you go, I’d like to take just a moment and talk with you about where you are and what you’re feeling right now. And what’s more, I’d like to take a moment to tell you where you could be… and how I can help.
Make a Decision Today…
And You Don’t Have To
Make a Decision Alone.Together, we can achieve clarity so you can grab happiness again…
Whether your happiness is in this relationship or another one,
this unique approach will help you prepare
fully for the kind of love you desire…
When you’re in an unhappy relationship, every single day is a chore. A chore not to scream at your spouse; a chore not to break down and blame the world for your unhappiness. A chore to put on a brave face and pretend to the outside that everything is perfect while inside you’re dying and wishing someone would just see your struggle in your eyes.
How do you decide whether it’s right to stay or go? How do you decide whether staying and working on your marriage is harder than leaving?
I’ve asked myself those questions about a relationship before… and I made the hard decision. (I’ll tell you more about it in a minute – we’re talking about you.) And you’re likely facing that same decision right now… Do you Stay? Or do you Go?
Staying means saying that you’re not ready to give up yet. Staying means working on it and discovering whether the right relationship for you is the one you’re in.
Going means standing up and saying that this isn’t the right thing for you and that you’re better off leaving. Going means having to discover what life is like on your own again.
Either way, it’s hard. It’s hard to admit that your relationship isn’t what you thought it would be. It’s hard to tell your partner that you’re unhappy and even harder to hear it said back. It’s messy and it’s complicated and it can turn your life completely upside down.
The ones who get dumped have it easy – the decision is made for them. Sure, they have to pick up the pieces… but it’s not their FAULT. If you make the decision to go, you’re the bad guy. You’re the one that ruined things. You’re the one that had the audacity to ask for more.
Sound about right?
Before we go further, though, I want to tell you that you are completely deserving of the kind of love that you desire. You have a lot to offer and you deserve the chance to have the kind of relationship that makes you feel complete and comfortable and… you.
That doesn’t mean that you may not require a little bit of help to get
you to the right kind of place where you can figure out what that looks like.
Sometimes, you may not know what a good relationship looks like… or you do what I did and focus on the surface instead of how you feel. (Looking good for your friends and family doesn’t always feel great, does it?)
You may have even thought that an affair would keep the status quo and give you the passion that you need.
The hard truth is that you cannot simply exist this way. You’re putting your life and your joy on hold for someone else… and it’s time to figure out if you should Stay or Go.
Once you decide to stay and work on it or admit that it’s not the right thing for you… the change will be seen all the way up to the sparkle in your eyes.
This is me while I was in my previous marriage. A marriage I stayed in for 11 years. And while I was in this marriage, I “had it all.” I had the 4 bedroom house in a golf community. I had the dog and the handsome husband and the corporate job with cushy 401(k). I had a group of friends that I saw regularly and I spent a lot of time living the dream.
And I was lonelier than I ever thought possible.
My husband and I weren’t lovers – we were married to one another because we were “safe.” I had no sparkle in my eyes, because I didn’t have any spark in my life. I couldn’t tell my friends how I felt because they were envious of what I had – how did I explain that it just wasn’t enough?
And so I left him. I left for a man that made me feel passionate. A relationship full of hot and heavy sparks… and one that left me burned and more alone than before.
But I couldn’t go back – I couldn’t return to my life because I was FEELING things now. I couldn’t go backward to that unfeeling, numb, lonely life.
So I spent the next 2 years discovering precisely who wasn’t a good fit – men who were bad for me from the start but that I loved anyway. Men who would never love me back… not the way I wanted. Men who would love me and leave me, men who used me, and men who were so emotionally unavailable that I couldn’t ever crack the code.
After the last breakup, I said “enough.” I had hit rock bottom and I knew that I had to figure out a different, better way.
There is a better way. There IS a better life out there for you. There is a love that will put the sparkle into your eyes and make you feel more alive than you’ve ever felt before. I can promise you this – because I’ve found it.
Now, let’s be clear: This is NOT a support system to help you leave your relationship.
In all honesty, I don’t have a horse in this race other than you and your happiness. If staying and fixing the relationship you’re in is the right thing for you… then that’s what we’re going to work on for you.
And if going – if making that change – is the right thing for you… then we can work on that, too.
Just because I left my relationship doesn’t mean it’s the right thing for everyone. It’s not. My relationship was beyond repair because it wasn’t the right relationship in the first place. Your relationship, your situation… that’s your unique journey and one that you and I can work on together.
I have developed a systematic approach that will help you do exactly that…get you to your answer for your heart and your life.
Imagine what you will feel like falling asleep in the arms of your best friend, your lover, your forever-partner… instead of falling asleep wishing for warmth.
Imagine being “that couple” that your friends are jealous of because you’re just so blissfully happy…
Imagine being with someone who makes you feel so completely and comfortably “you” that you can’t ever remember a time in your life before love…
Imagine listening to the love songs on the radio and feeling peace and satisfaction, rather than depression and wistfulness..
You can have it. And I can help.
Don’t take my word for it. Read what others just like you have to say:
- Working with Sharon has completely changed my marriage.After 22 years of struggling to understand each other and on the brink of divorce, she taught me how to do things differently and in turn, saved my marriage (and my sanity).
I was very skeptical of hiring a life coach at first thinking I knew everything and it was my husband who needed to change, but in only three sessions, she completely changed my perspective and I am more in love with my husband than ever before.
The bonus is that he is now acting more like the man I married and not the distant, resentful person that I “created.”
Best thing I ever did!”
- It was out of desperation that I reached out to Sharon. I had completely hit rock bottom and realized that my way of working through my issues was not generating any results. I felt rejected, completely alone and stuck in a dark place where I no longer wanted to be. I had spent a year trying to “fix” my situation on my own. It was the most horrible year of my life! I literally locked myself in my office bawling like a baby, typing her the most pathetic email asking her to talk to me and hoping that she would respond. In that moment, I chose to make an investment in myself!She fit me into her busy schedule and instantly we connected. She did not judge me, she did not tell me what she thought I should or should not do. She told me that in nine weeks she could provide me clarity in regards to my situation, heal my heart and give me hope again. And she did not fail to deliver on her promise. I gave her all of me working the program faithfully for nine weeks and in return, I came out with tools to help me navigate through difficult situations, clarity with my situation, a healed heart and I am extremely hopeful for my future.
The decision to invest in myself set me free from pain and darkness.
Sharon is truly an amazing woman, coach and now friend.
- I Finally Have The Courage To Live My Best Life – “I had been living my last 32 years in fear and not trusting myself. I am so thankful for your work and my Inner Wisdom and to all of the things that make me never give up on myself. Thank you for being brave enough to share your life so I can have the courage to live mine.”
- I found it very beneficial, and I’m so grateful for the opportunity. Working with you has turned out to be the best investment I have ever made!
Working with me directly through my proven system is the best way to gain real clarity about what’s been keeping you from creating the kind of relationship you desire for yourself. I can assure you things won’t be the same for you after 2 months with me.
I’m not asking you to get out your wallet today. And I’m certainly not asking you to make a decision about your relationship today. I’m asking you to commit to a phone call. I’m asking you to spend 45 minutes on the phone with me, getting to know me, and discovering whether I’ve got the tools you need to live life – and love – on your own terms.
Are you ready to heal your heart so you can make the right decision about your relationship? Are you ready to open up your world to the possibility of more than just satisfactory love – whether that’s with your husband and with someone else in the future?
If so… then perhaps it’s time to try something different than you’ve been doing…which got you to where you currently are. I’m here to help… but it’s up to you to make the first step. Simply click the button below and you’ll be directed to schedule your 45-minute Truth & Clarity Session.
In Love & Light,
P.S. Remember, I am only accepting 5 new clients per month and this month may already be completely booked up. The longer you wait to schedule your call, the longer you’ll live as you’ve been living… and if you’re ready for a change, it’s time to take a chance.