Healing from an Affair (Yours or His…)

This is a Big Decision with Far Reaching Implications. It Should be Treated Accordingly.

Healing from an Affair (Yours or His…)

Healing from an Affair
(Yours or His…)

My client, I’ll call her Heather, has been married for more than twenty years. Over that time, the couple has certainly hit some speed bumps. When she was pregnant and on bed-rest, he had an emotional affair with another woman. When her mother passed away, he didn’t even go to the funeral. As she struggled to take care of their three children, he sunk deeper and deeper into his work.

Heather felt alone, unseen, unheard, unappreciated and frankly lost.

He didn’t know anything was wrong and she didn’t know how to tell him.

As the emptiness in her marriage became more and more pronounced, Heather sought comfort from an old friend who had shown her unconditional love and acceptance for decades – her former high school sweetheart.

Heather knew that what she was doing was dangerous, but she didn’t feel like she had anyone else.

She felt she couldn’t stop herself.

She kept it a secret as she and her lover grew closer and closer.

She told me that during that time, she felt like she had finally come out of the darkness and was standing in the light – like she could breathe again.

She felt like she had a reason to pull herself out of bed in the morning that had nothing to do with her kids.

She knew it was wrong.

She also knew something she didn’t know previously.

She knew exactly what was missing in her marriage. She knew why she was feeling so unseen and unheard. She knew why sex never felt quite right with her husband. She knew it could be different.
And once she knew that, she couldn’t un-know it.

With my help and guidance, she’s using that knowledge to decide about her marriage. She’s clear she wants to be able to do that without the false hope of a possible future with her lover. She wants to be able to give her husband a chance. She wants to know that even if she walks away from this marriage, that she won’t carry regret and guilt and shame.

She’s also clear that the affair is not the reason the marriage is in trouble; the affair is the result of the disconnection in the marriage — the feelings that have gone unexplored, the words that have gone unspoken and the desires that have died.

Perhaps you’re in, or have been in, a similar situation.

Perhaps you’re the one who has been cheated on and you feel your heart will never heal.

Either case, the desire to know – with 100% confidence – that you are making the right decision for your marriage – is the ultimate goal. Whether you stay or go, together we’ll find the best path for you – the one that leads you to the life that feels good to your soul.

Take the first step and Apply for Your Complimentary Truth & Clarity Session today.